haha!

Last Paper for YEAR 2

LAST DAY OF SCH AS YEAR 2!

GD LUCK TO DPFM 23 & 24!

HOPE TO SEE EVERYONE IN YEAR 3...

hmmm including myself!

haha

im so high now...

erm...

heheZ

i will miss you all... =)

oh ya... i didn mention that i had a dream last nite...

wat i dreamz of...

make a guess?

LOL...

not money

not my exams

not family

not friends

not guys

guess guess guess...

haha ok im bored

i dreamt of MJR RCY unit...

and it was a bad one...

i cried at there... (i mean in dreamz)

WTH...

haiz...

seriously dunno how to reply the email...

dun blame me for not replying it...

but i really dunno wat to reply...

of course i know tis may be the last chance for her to survive...

but i cant giv any promise or wat now due to my personal commitment...

the feeling of 有心无力 was so terrible..

i jus wanna complete my diploma now...

and maybe go into a uni? hmmm its still far for me to tink..

that's my aim now

Hey ppl congratz me?

finally I have set an aim for myself...

hmmmm my study progress doesnt seem to be very good..

get distracted very easily..

as for the last exam im gonna leave out 2 topics out of 6 to study..

it's to much for me to adsorb..

ok dun nag me i know im last mins..

sometimes i also dun understand myself...

dunno what i want, wat i do and worse who am i..

SO CONFUSING!

i only know that my parents are worried abt my condition now...

ya... but i tink im fine now?

feel so bad to let them worry..

wat i can say now is IM SORRY! and only sorry....

What's Your Personality Type?

Life as an INTJ(Introvert, Intuitive, Thinker, Judger)

People of this type tend to be: autonomous, aloof, and intellectual; imaginative, innovative, and unique; critical, analytical, and logical; intellectually curious, driven to learn and increase their competence and knowledge; socially cautious and reserved; organized and definitive.
The most important thing to INTJs is their independence and being able to live according to their own standards.

Great careers for INTJs

Here are just a few popular and often satisfying careers for people whose Personality Type is INTJ.

Intellectual property attorney
News analyst
Design engineer
Biomedical researcher
Network integration specialist
Software developer
Psychiatrist
Cardiologist
Freelancer writer
Inventor
Media planner
Chief Financial Officer
Webmaster
Architect
Desktop publishing specialist

How to Love an INTJ

Be an attentive and respectful listener.
Appreciate my competency and creativity.
Give me plenty of privacy and time alone for me to pursue my interests in depth.
Try not to pressure me to share my feelings before I'm ready.
Be honest and direct about what you need.
Above all - respect my independence and need to live my life according to my own standards.

SpeedReading INTJs

The key to success lies in your ability to quickly size others up, and speak their language. Here are just a few clues for SpeedReading (understanding) and SpeedReaching (communicating with) INTJs.

How to Spot INTJs:

cool, formal and independent
intellectual, logical, and skeptical
complex, and challenging with a sometimes superior attitude
conservative dressers with an individual look

Tips for Communicating with INTJs:

Appeal to their creativity and innovation
Base your arguments on logical reasoning
Be organized and avoid errors that undermine your competence

People vary considerably in how secure or insecure they feel in their relationships with others. For example, sometimes a person may feel quite secure with his or her parents, but may feel insecure with his or her romantic partners. Psychologists believe that these feelings of security and insecurity are rooted in the beliefs and expectations (i.e., representations) that people hold about their relationships.

One of the objectives of this web page is to assess how you represent different people in your life, and what the structure of those representations may be.

According to attachment theory and research, there are two fundamental ways in which people differ from one another in the way they think about their close relationships. First, some people are more anxious than others. People who are high in attachment-related anxiety tend to worry about whether others really love them and often fear rejection. People low on this dimension are much less worried about such matters. Second, some people are more avoidant that others. People who are high in attachment-related avoidance are less comfortable depending on others and opening up to others.

Here are your scores on each of these attachment dimensions with four important kinds of people in your life. Scores can range from 1 (low) to 100 (high). The average score for other people who have taken this survey are given in parentheses.

Person
Anxiety
Avoidance
Mother
43 (22)
46 (43)
Father
52 (26)
54 (53)
Partner
59 (39)
47 (31)
Friend
53 (24)
44 (27)

In this research we are interested also in how peoples' attachment styles might be related to the way they process emotional information--information about the affective states of others. To investiage this matter, we asked you to watch several movie clips of people expressing different emotions and to indicate the point at which the person no longer appeared to be experiencing the emotional state in question. These movie clips are artificial, thus, there is no right or wrong answer in the judgement task. As such, we expect that people will project aspects of their own personalities into the ways in which they perceive the emotional states of others.

The table below shows the point at which you stopped the movie (on average) for different kinds of emotions. The number shown in the middle column is the frame at which you stopped the movie--out of a total of 100 frames per movie. The numbers in the right-most column are the frames at which other people stopped the movie, on average.

Emotional state
Your judgement
Other people's judgments
Anger
77.67
63.80
Happiness
84.33
61.29
Saddness
78.67
63.49

Overall, the point at which you stopped the movie clips tended to be later than the point at which other people stopped the movie clips. This suggests that you tend to see emotions as 'enduring' longer than other people. Because the movies are artificial, however, it is important to keep in mind that there is no 'true' point at which the actors stopped feeling the emotions.

How do you behave in your relationships with your friends? Do you set the ground for good friendships?

Sagittarius You are forgiving and helpful and you evidently make a good friend. You are also capable of giving good and helpful advice. Even if your friends disappoint you you will not feel resentment or hatred.

Sagittarius You also seem to enjoy verbal duels with others whenever you can. And you sure can make sore losers, even suspecting foul play if things don't go your way. You have a knack for confrontation and you can't resist being sarcastic. You also don't think too much of many people, because you have a mild superiority complex. Vanity is also a trait in many of you.

Advice: Learn with whom you can be frank otherwise keep your comments to yourself. Discretion is the better part of valor. Curb your confrontation, and you can combine it with your concern for serious issues, aiding in your search for truth.

If you are a lion: Quite contrary to the name, you are a peace loving person. You try to avoid aggressive situations.. An outdoor person, you dislike sitting at one place for a long time. You are a born leader. You want to feel loved, and when you receive your share of limelight from someone, you are all theirs! Some people could even take advantage of this by flattering you. So be careful..

Hornbeam tree: (the good taste) - of cool beauty, cares for its looks and condition, good taste, is not egotistic, makes life as comfortable as possible, leads a reasonable and disciplined life. Looks for kindness and acknowledgement in an emotional partner, dreams of unusual lovers, is seldom happy with its feelings, mistrusts most people, is never sure of its decisions, very conscientious.

4 The conservative 4's are sensible and traditional. They like order and routine. They only act when they fully understand what they are expected to do. They like getting their hands dirty and working hard. They are attracted to the outdoors and feel an affinity with nature. They are prepared to wait and can be stubborn and persistent. They should learn to be more flexible and to be nice to themselves.

Famous 4's: Neil Diamond, Margaret Thatcher, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Tina Turner, Paul Hogan, Oprah Winfrey

Dragon Characteristics

As the noble animal symbol that represents the Chinese emperors, Dragons are born leaders and masters of ceremonies. And because of this, every Chinese parent is hoping to have a Dragon child. Dragon people get things started and keep them moving. They are feisty and gifted with power and luck. Most people look up to the Dragon. Dragons are born monarchs. As far as they can see, their power is indisputable. Dragons are idealists, perfectionists, they are born thinking they are perfect and they are inflexible. Dragons are also aggressive and determined, going after what they want is second nature to them. And due to their hunger for power, Dragons are not well suited to growing old. The prospect of losing power, the helpless feeling of youthful strength ebbing away is unbearable to them.

Irritable and stubborn, the Dragon is a real big mouth and the words of Dragons often outrun their thoughts. Nevertheless, their opinions are worth listening to and their advice is always good. People do, in fact, listen to them and their influence is considerable. Dragons are over-proud. They are enthusiastic to the point of impetuosity, and they lose their temper easily.

Dragons are dauntless, dynamic and delightful. When a Dragon enters a gathering, the room starts to simmer. The Dragon is very self assured and has an inflated ego. Dragons are tyrannical. They hate orders except when they are giving them. Unlike Tigers, who impose their will seriously and firmly or Oxen, whose authority is implied in their very stern demeanor, Dragons know innately how to exert authority yet be gentle with their slaves. Dragons are terrible snobs. Although money is not always the object, they are slavishly impressed by wealth, prestige, rank and splendor.

The Dragon is gifted, intelligent, tenacious, willing and generous. They can do anything. No matter whether Dragons choose an artistic career, medical or political one, they are going to shine in it. They will be a success wherever they go. The Dragon is often loved and never disappointed in love. The women of this sign are surrounded by admirers and often demanded in marriage.

Compatibility
1 - least compatible100 - most compatible with
Rat95 - One of the best-arranged unions.
Ox48 - Constant fighting.
Tiger76 - Despite minor difficulties, good for marriage.
Rabbit85 - Good team.
Dragon34 - Too much competing against each other.
Snake63 - This might work.
Horse57 - Love at first sight, but will go downhill.
Sheep74 - A sound and stable relationship.
Monkey82 - Despite the differences, they'll do just fine.
Rooster72 - Balanced but not passionate.
Dog55 - With reservation.
Pig87 - An excellent match.

Famous dragons: Joan Of Arc, Pearl Buck, Freud.
Hours ruled by the dragon: 7 a.m. to 9 a.m.
Direction of its sign: East - Southeast
Season and principle month: Spring - April
Corresponding Western sign: Aries
Fixed element: Wood

Rawr im bored!

ytd finished my BMT paper, it consist of 50% and i really goin to flunk the paper... =.=

i shall start my BSII soon... didn even touch a topic yet..

sat goin SHOPPING! oh ya i bought a dress ytd... those mature type one...ya taste changed..

cant wait for the last paper to finish, which is on 1st feb the coming fri!!!

opps i also forget that sat got SPPRIMERs reunion dinner but i meet my friend for shopping le so i tink i gonna miss it...

noting much to update.. still the same old me..

argh... how.. (scratching and pulling my hair now)

tml is my ECONS paper….

Total hav 13 topics need to squeeze into my super stupid brain cells

Up till now only read through twice…

Soon gonna turn bonkers…

Anyway haha CT the 10 credits module is OVER!

Ya…. .3 down 4 more to go..

Gotten my ITP placement too… it is way far too sucky… the place is so near MANJUSRI SEC! arhg… I can imagine that I will see those xiao di di and mei mei everyday when I go to work! Reporting time will be 8.30AM!!! faint*

Went for few K-ing session with some friends at different places then most common and nice ktv will be at LiquidGold.. yup they are pros and I feel so inferior at there.. duh I still sing in the end.. Somehow get addicted to singing.. cant denied that I like singing but for sure I wont go for any vocal training cos it is my hobby only. I dun want tis interest end up turning into a draggy matter to me lyk dancing. Ya but I still love dancing cos I lyk the indescribable feeling went im dancing together wif the music..

Argh…. Shldn blog here… there are so many many tings stuck in my mind and I want to say but it jus not the right time to say it out now…

Silent is still the best ever decision I have made.

Oh ya... heard a bad news from my BRO!

my dad is not giving any allowance for CNY spending if we didn clean our room...

OMG look at the state of my room now.... tink i will take many day to clear all my things...!!!!

argh!!!!

I guess I will be a busy person too.

2008 does not seem to be an easy year for me.

I will elaborate my first month of 2008 more in the next post.

Yup End of Semester Tests and Examination is coming or I should say it has come!

11/01 Psychology & Counselling
15/01 MBW(Structures)
16/01 Structures
18/01 Construction and Technology
22/01 Economics
28/01 BMT
01/02 BSII (LAST PAPER!)
Did not even really start studying… haiz

SHOPPING AND PLAYING TIME!
haha... i cant wait to go shopping with VIEN!

07/02 CNY (Gong Xi Fa Cai!!!) lol

11/02 ITP
Argh say about this, it quite irritating, ITP mean no holiday for me, cannot be late for 2 months and surely a cheap labour.. -.- the placement has not come out yet.. OH PLS let me kanna an east area one or town company..

After ITP will be start of my YEAR 3! So will be like everyone chiong-ing all the modules and FYP.. Ya btw I choose QS/Project Mgt for my 3rd year course.

Oh my busy schedule does not end just like that; today I just received the dance schedule.

20/01 Practice
27/01 Practice
03/02 Practice
17/02 Practice
24/02 Practice
12/06-22/06 Camp
06/12 Performance

Rawr! Ok it time for me to sleep now!

After the incident, I have learned that how terrible it is if you can’t see anything and the feeling of total darkness in your world.
So conclusion it is time for me to take care of myself.
Seriously, I need a long rest.

BB my dearest readers x)