it's has been mth since my current update. well like many others in this world, many thing have happened in my life. Right after my 21st bday, grand uncle's farewell, malacca trip, 2010 count down with kakis, cousin's farewell, Start of sch, cny family gathering, v. day, law wed, Ipoh and Kl trip, universal studio, Awards and Promo, Changed of job for him, examination and of course many many other things i cant rmb quite clearly memorise are getting worse i need my organiser which i left it in my office.

My 21st bday, yup i learnt a lot from organising the party, i very grateful to those who help me up and ppl who turn out. i tot it was quite a messed, i think so till now. However my dad still being so supportive. He told me straight infront of me and said "i felt that it was a great party and a sucessful one". Oh well tt's the greatest thing i have heard for my 21st. =)

Grand uncle's r.i.p. everyone will miss you.

Malacca Trip, thanks to my cousin and her husband bringing my and my bro plus 2 of my little cousin ard and with her 2 little kid my nephew and niece. Play, shopping and eat. That was a great short getaway! =)

Count down at chalet was great too but didn enjoy much down with gastric cramp dun to the medicine im taking. Anyway a late Happy 2010 to everyone.

Till now it is still hard for me to believe that my cousin is gone forever, im still feeling that he is still with us, of course i hate him not to wake up in the 3 day of coma after the accident i hate him for not getting well for everyone of us worrying in the hospital. i hate him to leave his 2 old parents walking rest of their life themselves, i hate him for leaving us without saying goodbye. I hate the most will be hospital and the police there partly due to their neligence cause his death, i hate them and curse them! Im scare that one day i will forget his look his stubborness his voice. I really miss him. Thanks to his friends stay with him throughtout the 3 days of wake.

CNY gathering, look happy but down in heart everyone is sad still this a gathering for everyone of us to pull each other out especially him parents and gradn uncle. The sour-ish taste of feeling still come in occassionally.

V. Day, he bought me a camera reason 'i keep on using my hp to zi pai' =.= of course got scolded by me. well appreciate that. =)

Start of school! well life still have to move on. Busy coping with work and study. Doubt i manging it very well but a least a pass? Just finished my examination this week. So now im having 2 day of home break! sound so exciting but acutally nothing much. watching and plany computer for hours.

law wed! 2nd friend of mine wedding. x) lovely couple <3

Ipoh and Kl trip should be relaxing end up is tired!!! dragged by my friends to shop for hours everyday. and need to serve the mr. its tiring. still enjoy the experience. oh it my 1st overseas with my secondary sch friend. thanks my cousin for the hotel too.

Universal Studio. disappointed that the 2 coasta was shut down and dun have the time to finished all the rides. nevertheless ira and i still enjoyed it. thumb up!

A&P yup im offically Asst. youth official. but will still lie low or mia. i dun hav time seriously.

Congrat for him to step into another level of challenge hope everything will turn out fine. knowing that he is trying very hard to adapt into that new working place i felt happy yet worried. Hope this will be a better route for him. =)

Exam! finally finished. this conclude that i have finished a sem out of five. jiayou!

Life i really very short to finish everthing in this world so priortise it.

i found a blog of motivation for everyone to read.

'Self improvement and success go hand in hand.'
How do you know if a person is willing to achieve self-improvement? This is a question no definite answer. It will depend on the individual. Many people have goals, dreams and ambitions, but do not know how you get to go.

You can about what would have thought himself and the improvement of their ideal life, but have no idea how to even begin to make plans and take the necessary steps to realize them. Some people have a vague idea of how to go about herself improvement. These are those who believe that if they only had a job or had improved, or the love of her life, or whatever, now would be wonderful and fulfilled all they were happy.

They feel that their happiness or lack of happiness on external factors and their thoughts and actions will be decided, are of minor importance. Some believe that if only they had more money, what they want and will be improved on their way to independence. You may have spent very little time to think about what they really want out of life, and do not really believe that all they can do to create their fuzzy version of utopia anyway, apart from my more lottery tickets. Other people do not know what they want from their lives and may even have little idea what really makes them happy. They seem to just drift from day to day, from week to week, month by month and year to year, and not much more than just get by.

Perhaps they have seemingly secure jobs and earn enough to lead a relatively comfortable life. They seem happy and have no great ambition to achieve something in their lives than they currently have. Understood the importance of self-improvement? The reality is that throughout our lives we are all constantly growing and evolving. Circumstances make us grow and evolve, even if we do not make the conscious decision to do so.

Up to a certain age, we learn through formal education, and we continue to learn about our experiences for the rest of our lives. We need to learn and grow to deal with everything that life throws our focus. We all have to go through self improvement. Modern life moves at a dramatically faster than ever before in history. For all who are in the modern society are more opportunities to do to everything you do with your life than ever before. But there is more competition than ever, and ever-changing technology means that there are really few, if any 'jobs for life "anymore. It is now normal to change not only their jobs quite often throughout our working lives, but even completely change careers and industries.

Since the workplace is so competitive, people who are ambitious and hungry for success know they need to learn new skills and knowledge to keep in front of the pack. To achieve this, self improvement is needed. These are the people that most likely will stick to their jobs or to advance in their chosen field, or will be easy to employability in different organizations or industries.

A commitment to self improvement and personal growth well be the deciding factor, as will emerge in the future.

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